The face in the mirror that’s so familiar to you and your acquaintnaces isn’t you. It’s simply the tent you dwell in. Your place of abode, the physical characteristics people relate to as you. The real you is hidden away somewhere inside, a person only God truly knows.
The evaluation offered in this article can help you understand who you are and may also offer hints to your bent in life and the direction in which you are heading. Take time to honestly answer a few questions – for a glimpse of the real you.
- What places do you voluntairly frequent?
- Who do you enjoy being around?
- Who do you pity?
- What brings you joy?
- What is the most prominent goal in your life?
- Who do you admire?
- What do you fear?
- What do you hate?
- After what do you consistently seek?
- How do you want others to see you?
- What are your secret desires?
- Who are your friends?
- Where do you spend your discretionary funds?
- What makes you uncomfortable?
- Would you want you as a close friend? Why or why not.
As you think about your life experiences, choices, talents, and aspirations, perhaps you will begin to discover the unique individual you are. It may not be who others think you are, or even who you think you are, but the real you that only God can see.
If this blog has given you insight into strengths, talents or gifts that perhaps you did not know you had, share your findings with others. Comments are encouraged.
Recommended Reading….a must for all women.
Soles Defining Souls: Walking In the Shoes of Different Church Ladies
. . . and Those Who Left
Copyright © 2015 by Lori E. Dixon
Published in Abbotsford, British Columbia by LKM Publishing
Defining souls offers an exceptional insight into the hearts and souls of women. While focusing on the different personalities found in our places of worship, the analogy is easily applied to women everywhere. We are all unique and different; God made us that way. We are different parts of the same picture. Our size, shape, and coloring are all designed to enhance the overall landscape as God intended. God’s plan is perfect, but we are not. The problems arise when the pieces of the puzzle are offended by the shape and size of other pieces, and attempt to manipulate God’s design by usurping His authority in their placement.
The author’s use of different shoes easily defines the different personalities in a way that does not diminish their importance. Offering the reader a chance to see beyond the action and understand the why. Not only in the lives of others but also in their own.
“Your actions will always be what the world sees, but people who choose to see through God’s eyes will always have the compassion to understand why.”
― Shannon L. Alder
I have been in women’s ministry for 20 plus years. During that time I have listened to numerous speakers, read many books and attended a wide variety of functions. I almost always came away with the feeling I had been cheated. The excitement would be high, well known speakers, great music and a healthy ticket price. However, I usually left disappointed.
I finally accepted the fact that I was the piece of the puzzle that didn’t fit. Everyone else seemed content with the way things were so it must be me. Then I ran across this quote on Facebook by Sarah Bessey.
“I’m here tonight because I want what the world cannot give me. We are chocking on cutesy things and crafty bits, safe lady topics and if one more person says that modest is hottest with a straight face, I may throw up. We are hungry for authenticity and vulnerability. Not ‘churchified’ life hacks from lady magazines. Some of us are drowning, suffocating, dying of thirst for want of the cold water of real community. We’re trying really hard, – after all we keep showing up to your lady events and we leave feeling just a bit empty.
We are seeking deep spirituality. We are seeking fellow travelers. We are hungry for true community, a place to tell our stories and listen to another, to love well. But above all, point me to Jesus – not to the sale at the mall.” ~Sarah Bessey
Thank you, Sarah! Perhaps I’m not crazy after all.
Visit Sarah at Sarah Bessey
Are there others out there that feel the same?
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